Iman & Indigo / by autumn bland

July, 2020

This beautiful naturalistic momma and son were photographed last summer as part of the Portraits of Pride series. “The pandemic has presented challenges with life as it has for most,” said Iman. “I’m grateful for the pandemic—this moment to rest and heal! I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2013, having experienced a lot of musculoskeletal pain since my childhood, my pregnancy brought on more neuropathy that I still feel. I’ve been focused on creating a routine that sets me up for success. Nursing and strengthening old injuries to a better state of wellness along with my mental, emotional, and spiritual health. Self care is key!”

Iman & Indigo moved from CLE to Akron during the pandemic. Having lived in Akron before, the move was not too tough, other than missing being close to their family. They have been able to get in some socializing, but Iman is searching for more. “I wish Indigo could be around more babies his age—maybe at a mommy and me group for natural and holistic minded mommas and our starseeds,” said Iman. “I love parts of Cleveland, however I missed Akron because it's small, quick to get around, quiet, has a lot of diversity and a lot of nature. Cleveland holds a lot of history for me that makes me want to be anywhere else, but has a lot more to offer than Akron in terms of attractions like pole dance studios, and all sorts of good unique eats. I hope to someday move somewhere warm! My joints need warmth! Place me on the equator.”

“The future is uncertain. I'm learning to cope. I wish I knew what was next. I've placed my ideas on hold— I need to focus on my wellness.” Iman continued, “with so many accumulated injuries, I haven't been this immobile, ever. As I prepare for a possible surgery, I truly need my rest after years of going going going. Indigo is huge and growing, he’s such an active, precious little adventurer. I want to be able to keep up with him and take him on walks. It’s hard with muscle weakness, numbness and hyper-mobility.”

“It's become so apparent that until I address my health and wellness, everything I try to create outside of self will be a reflection of my state within.”